If you don’t know where to begin and just want to dive into the content, below are the best articles on dating advice and personal development that I’ve written. These are articles that were either popular, controversial, or simply helped people enough for them to write and tell me.
Each one of the concepts in these articles should help you get a sense of what the site’s about, and hopefully, add some value to your life today.
DATING ADVICE
Building a good dating life isn’t complicated. It’s actually pretty simple.
It’s less about the opposite sex and more (way, way more) about you. The approach you take to your life and the approach you take to your fears determines the kind of results you, and ultimately, how happy you will be with them.
How To Have A Casual Relationship – And Why It’s A Terrible Idea – This is the most popular article on my site. Casual relationships are often considered a good thing. I’m not so sure.
If You Want To Be More Charismatic, Start Telling Good Stories – Everyone has stories that are worth sharing. Learn how to find yours.
The Fundamental Characteristics Of The Attractive Man – And The Only One That Matters – Being attractive is going to make or break your success in dating. But guess what? It all operates from one, simple principle. Complement with my article on What Makes A Man Chronically Unattractive?
If You Say Hi, You’ve Already Won – How To Start Building A Better, Simpler Sex Life By Focusing On Less – In dating, less is more. Don’t buy into the overcomplicated hype and start getting the results that life is putting in front of you.
How To Stop Yourself From Giving Terrible First Impressions – First impressions matter. But luckily they’re easy to fix.
If You Want To Be Charismatic, Be More Unlikeable – One of my favorite articles I’ve done. And a philosophy I swear by. EVERYONE says being charismatic is about being likeable. Bullshit. It actually has everything to do with the reverse.
Everything You Wanted To Know About Flirting With Women – Flirting isn’t rocket science. It’s about desire, fun, and connection.
The Ultimate, No Bullshit Guide to Breakups – Breakups suck. But the way we deal with them sucks even more. Here’s what you need to do.
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PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT
Everyone wants to become the best version of themselves. Some say this is formed by our environment, others say this is formed by our will. The reality is that it’s somewhere in between, and a lot of our assumptions are wrong.
Personal development is a deeply personal endeavor (hence the name). It’s less about routines and habits, and more about understanding the emotions behind those routines and habits. Because when we understand those, everything falls into place.
Here are my most popular articles on Personal Development:
How to Become The Master of Your Motivation – The secret to mastering your motivation isn’t an act of will. It’s discovering what’s already there.
Your Dreams Are Achieved In The Moments You Hate The Most – Your dreams aren’t going to be as fun as you think. And achieving them is about realizing that early on.
The Simple Art of Not Wasting Your Morning, Day, Week, Youth, or Life – Stop worrying about a morning routine to get your work done, and make your morning routine getting your work done.
How To Make Habits Your Bitch – The Ultimate Guide To Making And Breaking Habits – Habits form the patterns of your day to day lives. Learn how to build better ones today.
How To Stop Feeling Like A Failure – Feeling like a failure sucks. But getting out of this feeling is far from impossible.
The Do Nothing Paradox – Why Your Brain Needs To Be Lazy, And How Your Hard Work Is Actually Crippling Your Success – Everyone touts the merits of hard work. But when it comes to smarter thinking, you’re going to want to take time off. Here’s why.
How to Read a Shitload More and Improve Your Entire Life – Reading is the most important habit in the world. Not only does it further your education, it broadens your mind and helps you empathize with others. It also makes you more interesting. Learn how to build this habit today.
If You Let Them, Your Flaws Will Destroy You – If your good habits determine your success, your bad habits determine your failures. Worryingly, they’re not as easy to spot as we’d think.
You can also sign up for my newsletter and get my free E-Book “Everything You Wanted To Know About How To Handle Anxiety“. Fear and anxiety are the central obstacles to personal development. They keep us trapped in our comfort zone, and drown us in procrastination. The sooner we get a handle on them, the better.
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